Prior to this commit, gh-21783 introduced `ReadOnlyHttpHeaders` to avoid
parsing media types multiple times during the lifetime of an HTTP
exchange: such values are cached and the headers map is made read-only.
This also added a new `HttpHeaders.writableHttpHeaders` method to unwrap
the read-only variant when needed.
It turns out this method sends the wrong signal to the community
because:
* the underlying map might be unmodifiable even if this is not an
instance of ReadOnlyHttpHeaders
* developers were assuming that modifying the collection that backs the
read-only instance would work around the cached values for
Content-Type and Accept headers
This commit adds more documentation to highlight the desired behavior
for cached values by the read-only variant, and deprecates the
`writableHttpHeaders` method as `ReadOnlyHttpHeaders` is package private
and we should not surface that concept anyway.
Instead, this commit unwraps the read-only variant if needed when a new
HttpHeaders instance is created.
Closes gh-32116