After this commit, Tomcat and Undertow WebSocketSession imlpementations
start out in suspended mode and wait for demand.
The JettyWebSocketSession is capable of suspending but it doesn't seem
to work if invoked before any messages are received. That may become an
issue if there is a case where no demand appears long enough for more
messages to accumulate than we can hold.
UnderowServerHttpRequest would ideally also start in suspended mode but
that also doesn't work. It is not an issue in this case since we can
ignore the read notifications.
Servlet API requires a proactive check before it calls you back so
there is no need to suspend.
Issue: SPR-16207
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