JIRA: https://jira.spring.io/browse/INT-3442
Previously `RedisQueueMessageDrivenEndpoint.stop()` returned immediately.
It caused an issue when one more `message` might be read and processed to stopped app.
* Introduce `AbstractEndpoint#lifecycleCondition` and wait on it from `RedisQueueMessageDrivenEndpoint.doStop()`
and `signal()` it from `ListenerTask`.
* Since everything is done around `lifecycleLock` the `RedisQueueMessageDrivenEndpoint.stop()` waits for the proper
'last' message process.
* Add tiny `Thread.sleep(1)` to the `popMessageAndSend` cycle to free `lifecycleLock` for other Threads, e.g. `stop()`
INT-3442: Get rid of `lock` from listener cycle
* Introduce `stopTimeout` to minimize the `stop` thread blocking
* If the message is returned after that timeout it moved back to Redis List using `RPUSH`
INT-3442: Addressing PR comments
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