Resolves https://github.com/spring-projects/spring-integration/issues/3230
Previously, methods with the same name as `Lifecycle` methods were unconditionally ignored.
- Use logic similar to `ControlBusMethodFilter` to explicitly compare the candidate Method
to those on `Paused` and `Lifecycle` and only ignore those.
- Explicitly disallow these methods when named - previously the check was only performed
if no method name was supplied.
* - reinstate `Pausable/Lifecycle` methods if explicitly requested.
- log `Pausable` methods that are not candidates.
* - Fix typo in test method.
**Cherry-pick to 5.2.x**
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