Previously, ActiveMQ's pooled connection factory was not closed as
part of the application context being closed. This would leave
non-daemon threads running which could cause shutdown to hang unless
the JVM itself was shutting down (in which case a shutdown hook would
stop the pool).

This commit configures each pooled connection factory bean with a
custom destroy method so that the pool is stopped as part of the
application context being closed. To allow the destroy method to only
be declared when the connection factory is pooled, the bean method
has been split into two; one for pooled and one for non-pooled. This
is a partial backport of the changes made in bedf2edf.

Closes gh-4748