Previously, the auto-configuration for embedded Mongo did not specify
a bind IP so Mongo was started without one. This would lead to Mongo
binding to all available network interfaces. This caused some friction
with the Windows firewall as it would ask for permission every time
embedded Mongo was launched.

This commit updates the auto-configuration to use
spring.data.mongodb.host to configure the bind IP for embedded Mongo.
If spring.data.mongodb.host is null, the auto-configuration will use
the loopback address instead.

Closes gh-4630